Sex therapy is a unique and specialized form of talk therapy designed to help individuals and/or couples address psychological, emotional, and relational factors affecting their sexual health and satisfication. Concerns about sexuality, gender, sexual functioning, fantasy, behaviors, and sexual expression are typically discussed. While sexual issues are commonly experienced, they frequently go unspoken in therapy as very often feelings of shame, guilt or stigma hold people back from getting the help they need. Sex therapy addresses emotional issues underlying sexual problems and utilizes various techniques to cope with physical and psychological symptoms. What is different about sex therapy is that a sexual history is taken in the beginning in order to better understand your story and the concerns you seek to address. During a sex history, past experiences and the impact of culture and social environment on one’s sexuality are discussed and the messages you received or internalized about sex are explored. I offer treatment for those who are experiencing pain or performance concerns, differing levels of desires, difficulty coping with body image, identity and sexual trauma, and for those looking to have a better relationship with sex or increase their understanding about sexuality and anatomy. Sessions are 50 minutes long and are usually scheduled on a weekly or biweekly basis.
Sex Therapy
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Gender, identity, orientation, and sexuality concerns or questions
Decrease or change in desire, arousal, and functioning
Struggling to get into or stay in your body
Erection or lubrication difficulties
Experiencing a lack of orgasm or difficulty achieving orgasm
Differences in sexual desire
Vaginal pain or discomfort
Sexual compulsions or out of control sexual behavior
Difficulty communicating sexual issues or preferences
Explore kinks, fetishes and fantasies
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Have a safe and non-judgmental space to discuss and normalize sexual problems, concerns, fears, and secrets
Increase pleasure and enjoyment in your life
Learn skills and tools for addressing sexual concerns
Increase comfort talking about your sexual needs and desires
Improve understanding of what is erotic and pleasurable to you
Learn to have more ownership over your body and your eroticism
Feel more connected to yourself and/or your partner(s)
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The first session will include information gathering. During future sessions we will explore your worries, feelings, ideas and thoughts about sex, intimacy, relationships and sexual functioning as well as how different factors such as family history, background and culture have impacted your sexuality. Sex therapy is a form of talk therapy and never involves sexual contact between me and the client. You will receive tailored assignments to address concerns and get to try/learn new things, including techniques to become more in tune and connected with your body. Working together, I will help you create a new, playful and passionate sexual relationship with yourself and others.